What dad doesn't know doesn't count

by Sam Bartholomew, an attorney in Nashville
WITH two kids on the way out of college and more planning to attend, I find myself giving advice as our kids leave the nest. I doubt they pay much attention, but Dad gives is a try:
  • You have a body, possess a soul and are a spirit - look after all three.
  • Don't burp, chew gum, or spit where anyone can see or hear you.
  • Write a letter to someone at least once a week - writing is still cheaper than a phone call.
  • Always make time for daily prayer and Bible reading.
  • People are more likely to watch your walk than to believe all your talk.
  • Have a firm handshake, look 'em in the eye, speak clearly and say, "Yes Ma'am!" and "Yes, sir!"
  • Always show up early for marriages and funerals - it does the soul good to sit quietly, reflect and contemplate.
  • Keep lists of things to do - the world is run by people who make lists.
  • If you can't say something good about someone, don't say it.
  • Too much TV stunts your growth. Read a book for fun regularly.
  • You cannot solve everyone else's problems.
  • While there are two sides to most every issue, your Dad knows which one is right.
  • Manage your time and money wisely - there's a limited amount of it, and you'll rarely have too much.
  • Don't let the sun set on your anger - forgive and move on.
  • Boy's biggest problems: Girls, Greed and Glory.
  • Girl's biggest problems: Boys, What to Wear, Greed and Glory.
  • All advice is subject to change except God's.
  • Every child needs the unconditional love of another human being - help where you can.
  • Polish your shoes, be polite, and remember table manners are still important.
  • Don't get too busy for your family.
  • Winners prepare harder than losers.
  • Never enter into a 50/50 proposition without some way to resolve a split decision.
  • Never have a home mortgage larger than three times your income.
  • Join a local church and tithe.
  • The most important book on law, love and life is the Bible.
  • Good folks are everywhere, but the South has an unusually large number of them.
  • Don't be judgmental if you don't have all the facts.
  • Balance is important in life and in sports.
  • Parents and grandparents are wiser than you currently believe.
  • Exercise daily - it's more important as you age.
  • Negotiate with your father, after a good meal.
  • Boys really do like one-piece bathing suits.
  • If you need more advice, just ask Dad!
 


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